Tech support scams cost Americans over $800 million annually, with seniors losing more money per incident than any other age group. These scams are devastatingly effective because they exploit both fear of technology and trust in familiar company names like Microsoft and Apple.
This guide will help you understand how these scams operate, teach your parent to recognize them, and know what to do if they've already fallen victim.
Key Fact Your Parent Needs to Know
Microsoft, Apple, and other tech companies will NEVER call you about computer problems. They don't monitor your computer and have no way of knowing if you have a virus. Any unexpected call claiming your computer has a problem is a scam. Hang up immediately.
How Tech Support Scams Work
Scammers use several approaches to reach victims. Understanding their tactics helps you protect your parent.
The Unsolicited Phone Call
The phone rings. The caller says they're from "Microsoft Technical Support" or "Windows Security." They claim your parent's computer is infected with a virus, sending error messages, or has been hacked.
How it progresses:
- Caller creates urgency and fear about computer security
- They ask your parent to let them "see" the problem by installing remote access software
- Once connected, they may show fake "evidence" of problems (normal system files made to look suspicious)
- They offer to "fix" the problems for a fee (usually $200-$500 or more)
- They collect payment, often by credit card or gift cards
- While connected, they may also steal personal information or install actual malware
The Pop-Up Warning
Your parent is browsing the internet when suddenly their screen fills with an alarming message:
- "YOUR COMPUTER HAS BEEN INFECTED!"
- "SECURITY ALERT: Call Microsoft immediately at 1-888-XXX-XXXX"
- "Your files will be deleted in 5 minutes!"
- Loud alarm sounds or robotic voice warning
These pop-ups are designed to prevent closing them normally. They may freeze the browser or display fake "blue screen of death" errors. The phone number connects to scammers.
The Tech Support Search Result
Your parent searches for help with a real computer problem ("how to fix slow computer" or "printer not working"). Scammer websites appear in search results or paid ads, displaying fake phone numbers that connect to fraudulent "support."
The Email Warning
An email arrives claiming to be from Microsoft, Apple, or Norton, warning of security issues or subscription problems. Links lead to fake websites or phone numbers that connect to scammers.
Red Flags: How to Spot Tech Support Scams
Always Scams:
- Unexpected calls claiming to be from Microsoft, Apple, or your internet provider about computer problems
- Pop-up warnings with phone numbers to call
- Anyone asking for remote access to your computer after contacting you
- Requests for payment by gift cards, wire transfer, or cryptocurrency
- Pressure to act immediately or face disaster
- Claims they detected viruses or problems on your computer remotely
Other Warning Signs:
- Poor grammar or spelling in messages
- Caller refuses to let you hang up and call back
- They can't verify their identity when you ask questions
- Payment requested before any work is done
- Pop-ups that won't close normally
- Threats about arrest, fines, or legal action related to computer issues
What to Do in the Moment
If Your Parent Receives a Scam Call
- Hang up immediately. No need to be polite or explain. Just hang up.
- Don't press any buttons. Even pressing "1 to be removed from the list" confirms your number is active.
- Don't call back. Even if they leave a callback number.
- Block the number. Though scammers often use spoofed numbers.
If a Scary Pop-Up Appears
- Don't call the number displayed. It goes to scammers, not real tech support.
- Don't click anything in the pop-up. Not even the "X" to close it.
- Try to close the browser:
- Press Alt+F4 (Windows) or Cmd+Q (Mac) to force-close the browser
- Or open Task Manager (Ctrl+Alt+Delete on Windows) and end the browser process
- Or simply hold the power button to shut down the computer
- After restarting: Clear browser cache and run legitimate antivirus scan
These Pop-Ups Can't Actually Harm Your Computer
Scary as they look, these pop-ups are just web pages. They can't actually see your files, delete your data, or access your computer. The only danger is if your parent calls the number or clicks malicious links. Simply closing the browser (even if you have to force-quit) eliminates the threat.
If Your Parent Already Engaged with Scammers
Don't panic, but act quickly. The steps depend on how far the scam progressed.
If They Gave Remote Access to Their Computer
- Disconnect from the internet immediately. Unplug the ethernet cable or turn off WiFi.
- Turn off the computer.
- Have a professional check the computer for malware, spyware, and unauthorized changes. Consider a trusted local repair shop or services like Geek Squad.
- Change ALL passwords from a different, unaffected device (phone, tablet, another computer). Include:
- Email accounts
- Banking and financial sites
- Social media
- Any other important accounts
- Enable two-factor authentication on important accounts
- Monitor financial accounts closely for unauthorized activity
If They Made a Payment
Credit or debit card:
- Contact the card issuer immediately to report fraud
- Request a new card number
- Dispute the charge and request a chargeback
Gift cards:
- Contact the gift card company (Apple, Google, Amazon, etc.)
- Report the card numbers as used in a scam
- Recovery is unlikely but sometimes possible if reported quickly
Wire transfer:
- Contact the bank or wire service immediately
- Recovery is difficult but sometimes possible if caught very quickly
Cryptocurrency:
- Unfortunately, crypto payments are typically unrecoverable
- Report to the FBI's Internet Crime Complaint Center (IC3)
Report the Scam
Reporting helps authorities track and stop scammers:
- FTC: ReportFraud.ftc.gov
- FBI: ic3.gov (Internet Crime Complaint Center)
- Microsoft: microsoft.com/reportascam
- Apple: reportphishing@apple.com
- Local police: File a report, especially if significant money was lost
Protecting Your Parent Going Forward
Technical Protections
Install ad-blocking software:
- uBlock Origin is free and effective
- Blocks many malicious pop-ups before they appear
Use reputable antivirus software:
- Windows Defender (built into Windows) is adequate for most users
- Paid options like Norton, McAfee, or Bitdefender offer additional features
- Avoid "free" antivirus from unknown sources
Enable pop-up blocking:
- Built into most browsers (Chrome, Firefox, Safari, Edge)
- Check browser settings to ensure it's turned on
Use call-blocking services:
- Phone carrier services (often free)
- Apps like Nomorobo, RoboKiller, or Truecaller
- Register with the National Do Not Call Registry (donotcall.gov)
Establish Yourself as Tech Support
One of the best protections is establishing yourself (or a trusted family member or local service) as your parent's go-to for computer help.
- Tell them: "If anyone calls about your computer, hang up and call me."
- Make it clear you're happy to help with computer questions
- Set up remote access (like TeamViewer) so you can help without being there
- If they need professional help, research local options together
Education and Conversation
Have direct conversations about scam awareness:
- "Microsoft/Apple will never call you." Say this clearly and often.
- "Never let someone you don't know access your computer."
- "Call me before paying anyone for computer help."
- "Scary pop-ups are just tricks—they can't actually hurt your computer."
Practice scenarios:
- "What would you do if someone called saying your computer has a virus?"
- "What would you do if a pop-up said to call a number?"
Finding Legitimate Tech Support
Your parent will occasionally need real computer help. Here's how to find legitimate support:
Direct from the Company
- Microsoft: support.microsoft.com
- Apple: support.apple.com or visit an Apple Store
- For other brands: Go directly to the company's website (type it yourself, don't search)
Local Services
- Local computer repair shops with established reputations
- Best Buy's Geek Squad
- Office Depot/Staples tech services
- Word-of-mouth recommendations from friends
What Legitimate Tech Support Looks Like
- You contact them, they don't call you out of the blue
- They don't demand immediate payment
- They explain what they're doing in terms you can understand
- They provide written estimates before work
- They don't use high-pressure tactics
- They accept normal payment methods (not gift cards)
If Your Parent Was Scammed: Helping Them Cope
Scam victims often feel ashamed and may try to hide what happened. Your response matters.
What NOT to Say
- "How could you fall for that?"
- "I told you to be careful."
- "That was obviously a scam."
What TO Say
- "These scammers are professionals. They trick thousands of people."
- "I'm glad you told me. Let's figure out what to do."
- "This isn't your fault. Scammers are very sophisticated."
- "You're not alone—this happens to a lot of smart people."
Why This Matters
If your parent feels judged or ashamed, they may:
- Hide future scam attempts instead of asking for help
- Not report the scam, letting criminals continue
- Become isolated and vulnerable to future scams
Resources
Report Scams
- FTC: ReportFraud.ftc.gov
- FBI IC3: ic3.gov
- Microsoft: microsoft.com/reportascam
More Information
- AARP Fraud Watch Network: aarp.org/fraud
- FTC Consumer Information: consumer.ftc.gov
- Do Not Call Registry: donotcall.gov
If You Need Help
- AARP Fraud Helpline: 877-908-3360
- Identity Theft Resource Center: 888-400-5530