Not Tax Advice
This guide provides general information about tax benefits for caregivers. Tax laws are complex and change frequently. Consult a qualified tax professional for advice specific to your situation.
Family caregivers often spend significant money supporting aging parents—from medical expenses to home modifications to everyday living costs. While caregiving is rarely financially rewarding, the tax code provides several benefits that can help offset some of these costs.
Claiming Your Parent as a Dependent
If you provide significant financial support to your parent, you may be able to claim them as a dependent on your tax return. This opens the door to several tax benefits.
Qualifying Relative Requirements
To claim your parent as a "qualifying relative" dependent:
- Support test: You must provide more than half of your parent's total financial support for the year
- Gross income test: Your parent's gross income must be less than $5,050 (2024). Social Security benefits generally don't count toward this limit.
- Citizenship test: Your parent must be a U.S. citizen, U.S. national, U.S. resident alien, or resident of Canada or Mexico
- Not filing jointly: Your parent cannot file a joint return with their spouse (except to claim a refund)
Note: Unlike claiming children, your parent doesn't have to live with you to be claimed as a dependent.
Calculating the Support Test
Support includes amounts spent for:
- Food
- Housing (fair rental value if they live with you)
- Clothing
- Medical and dental care
- Education
- Transportation
- Recreation
Add up all support from all sources (you, other family members, your parent's own funds, government programs). You must provide more than half.
Multiple Support Agreements
If no single person provides more than half of support but several family members together provide more than half, you can use a Multiple Support Agreement (Form 2120) to decide who claims the dependent.
Requirements:
- No one person provides more than 50% support
- Combined family support exceeds 50%
- Each contributing person could have claimed the dependent if they alone had provided over half
- The person claiming the dependent provided at least 10% of support
- Others who contributed 10%+ sign statements agreeing not to claim the dependent
Coordinate with Siblings
When multiple family members contribute to a parent's support, decide together who should claim the dependent. Often, the family member in the highest tax bracket benefits most, but this isn't always the case. A tax professional can help determine the optimal arrangement.
Tax Benefits When Claiming a Parent
Credit for Other Dependents
If you claim your parent as a dependent, you may qualify for the Credit for Other Dependents:
- Up to $500 per qualifying dependent
- Non-refundable (reduces tax owed but won't generate a refund)
- Phases out at higher income levels ($200,000 single, $400,000 married filing jointly)
Medical Expense Deduction
If you claim your parent as a dependent, you can deduct their qualifying medical expenses on your return. Medical expenses are deductible to the extent they exceed 7.5% of your adjusted gross income (AGI).
Qualifying medical expenses include:
- Health insurance premiums (including Medicare Part B, Part D, Medigap)
- Long-term care insurance premiums (subject to age-based limits)
- Prescription medications
- Doctor, hospital, and dental expenses
- Nursing home costs (if primarily for medical care)
- In-home care costs (if medically necessary)
- Medical equipment (wheelchairs, hospital beds, oxygen)
- Home modifications for medical reasons (ramps, grab bars, widened doorways)
- Transportation to medical care
Example: Your AGI is $80,000. You pay $10,000 in medical expenses for your parent. The 7.5% threshold is $6,000. You can deduct $4,000 ($10,000 - $6,000).
Head of Household Filing Status
Even if your parent doesn't live with you, you may qualify for Head of Household status if:
- You're unmarried (or considered unmarried)
- You pay more than half the cost of maintaining your parent's home
- Your parent qualifies as your dependent
Head of Household status provides a larger standard deduction and more favorable tax brackets than Single status.
Dependent Care Credit
The Child and Dependent Care Credit can help offset the cost of care for a parent who is incapable of self-care—if you pay for care so you (and your spouse, if married) can work.
Requirements
- Your parent must be physically or mentally incapable of self-care
- Your parent must live with you for more than half the year
- You must pay for care so you can work (or look for work)
- You must have earned income
- If married, both spouses must work (unless one is a full-time student or disabled)
Credit Amount
- Maximum expenses you can claim: $3,000 for one qualifying person, $6,000 for two or more
- Credit percentage: 20-35% of expenses, depending on your income
- Maximum credit: $600-$1,050 for one qualifying person, $1,200-$2,100 for two or more
Qualifying Expenses
- In-home care while you work
- Adult day care programs
- Household services related to care
Not qualifying: Nursing home care, overnight camps, food, clothing, education.
Flexible Spending Account (FSA) Benefits
Dependent Care FSA
If your employer offers a Dependent Care FSA, you can contribute pre-tax dollars to pay for elder care expenses:
- Maximum contribution: $5,000 per year ($2,500 if married filing separately)
- Tax savings: Contributions reduce your taxable income
- Same requirements as Dependent Care Credit (parent must live with you, be unable to care for self, care must be so you can work)
Important: You cannot use both the full Dependent Care FSA and the Dependent Care Credit for the same expenses. If you contribute to a Dependent Care FSA, subtract that amount from what you can claim for the credit.
Health Care FSA
A Health Care FSA can pay for qualifying medical expenses for dependents:
- Maximum contribution: $3,200 (2024)
- Can pay for your parent's medical expenses if they're your dependent
- Tax-free contribution and withdrawal for qualifying expenses
Reducing Your Parent's Tax Burden
If you're managing your parent's finances, understanding their tax situation can help minimize what they owe.
Standard Deduction for Seniors
Taxpayers 65+ get a higher standard deduction:
- Single 65+: $15,700 (2024)
- Married filing jointly (both 65+): $30,700 (2024)
- Married filing jointly (one 65+): $29,200 (2024)
Social Security Taxation
Social Security benefits may be partially taxable depending on "combined income" (AGI + nontaxable interest + half of Social Security):
- Single: Under $25,000 = not taxed; $25,000-$34,000 = up to 50% taxed; over $34,000 = up to 85% taxed
- Married filing jointly: Under $32,000 = not taxed; $32,000-$44,000 = up to 50% taxed; over $44,000 = up to 85% taxed
Strategy: Keep other income low to minimize Social Security taxation.
Tax-Efficient Withdrawal Strategies
- Withdraw from taxable accounts first to keep qualified account balances growing
- Consider Roth conversions in low-income years (can reduce future RMDs and taxes)
- Be strategic about timing large capital gains or IRA withdrawals
Required Minimum Distributions (RMDs)
Starting at age 73 (as of 2023), your parent must take Required Minimum Distributions from traditional IRAs and 401(k)s:
- Failure to take RMDs results in a 25% penalty on the amount not withdrawn
- RMDs can be reduced to 10% if corrected within 2 years
- RMDs are taxed as ordinary income
- Consider Qualified Charitable Distributions (QCDs) to satisfy RMDs without increasing taxable income
Qualified Charitable Distributions
If your parent is charitably inclined and 70½ or older:
- Can donate up to $105,000 directly from IRA to charity (2024)
- Counts toward RMD but isn't included in taxable income
- Better than taking RMD and donating cash (even with itemized deduction)
- Must go directly from IRA to charity (not through your parent's account)
Record-Keeping for Tax Purposes
Good records are essential for claiming tax benefits:
What to Track
- All support payments you make (rent, utilities, food, etc.)
- Medical expenses paid (keep receipts, EOBs, statements)
- Care expenses (receipts from caregivers, day programs)
- Mileage for medical transportation (date, destination, miles)
- Home modification costs
- Your parent's income from all sources
How Long to Keep Records
- General rule: Keep tax records for 7 years
- Property records: Keep until 7 years after you sell
- Medical expense records: 7 years from year deducted
Common Tax Mistakes to Avoid
Mistake 1: Not Claiming Eligible Deductions
Many caregivers don't realize they can deduct a parent's medical expenses or claim other benefits. Review the options with a tax professional.
Mistake 2: Double-Dipping
You can't claim the same expenses for multiple benefits. For example, expenses paid through a Dependent Care FSA can't also be claimed for the Dependent Care Credit.
Mistake 3: Forgetting State Benefits
Some states offer additional tax benefits for caregivers, such as credits for care expenses or higher dependent exemptions. Check your state's tax rules.
Mistake 4: Incorrect Support Calculations
If multiple family members contribute to support, calculate carefully and coordinate who claims the dependent for maximum family benefit.
Mistake 5: Missing RMDs
If you manage your parent's finances, ensure RMDs are taken on time. The penalty for missing an RMD is severe (25% of the amount not withdrawn).
When to Get Professional Help
Consider consulting a tax professional when:
- Multiple family members support one parent
- You're unsure whether your parent qualifies as a dependent
- Significant medical or care expenses are involved
- Your parent has complex income (multiple retirement accounts, investments, business income)
- Estate planning intersects with tax planning
- State tax implications are complex
Frequently Asked Questions
You may claim your parent if you provide over half their support and their gross income is below the annual threshold (Social Security usually doesn't count). They don't have to live with you.
If you claim your parent as a dependent, you can deduct their medical expenses exceeding 7.5% of your AGI. This includes insurance premiums, prescriptions, doctors, nursing home costs (if medical), and medical equipment.
This credit provides up to $500 per qualifying dependent, including parents. It's non-refundable—it can reduce tax owed to zero but won't generate a refund.
Yes. The Dependent Care Credit may apply if you pay for care so you can work. Medical expense deductions are available if you claim your parent as a dependent. Some employer FSAs cover elder care expenses.
Strategies include maximizing the higher senior standard deduction, managing income to minimize Social Security taxation, considering Roth conversions in low-income years, and using Qualified Charitable Distributions.