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Hospital Advocate Toolkit

Everything you need to navigate a hospital stay and advocate for your parent's care

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Essential Information

Fill this out now, before you need it

Patient Quick Reference Card

Complete this now. Keep a copy in your phone, wallet, and with medical documents.

Current Medications (Bring This to the ER)

Medication Name Dose Frequency What It's For

Pro Tip: Phone Photos

Take photos of all medication bottles and insurance cards. Store them in a folder on your phone labeled "Medical Info." This can save critical time in an emergency.

Hospital Go Bag

Pack this now and keep it ready

Essential Documents

Comfort Items (for Longer Stays)

Don't Bring Valuables

Leave jewelry, large amounts of cash, and expensive electronics at home. Hospitals are not responsible for lost items.

Questions to Ask Doctors

Be an informed advocate, write down answers

Questions About the Diagnosis
Questions About Treatment
Questions About Hospital Stay

What to Say If You Don't Understand

"I want to make sure I understand correctly. Can you explain that in simpler terms?" or "Can you write that down for me?"

Hospital Stay Log

Track what happens each day

Use this log to track doctors' visits, changes in condition, and questions. You'll forget details quickly, write them down.

Date/Time Who Visited What Was Said / What Happened

Get Business Cards

Ask every doctor, specialist, and social worker for their card. You'll need to follow up after discharge, and names blur together quickly.

Patient Rights & Discharge

Know what you're entitled to

Your Parent Has the Right To:

Information

Full explanation of diagnosis, treatment, and prognosis in understandable language

Informed Consent

Agree to or refuse any treatment, test, or procedure

Privacy

Confidential handling of medical records and information

Dignity

Respectful care regardless of age, condition, or background

Visitors

Receive visitors and have a support person present

Appeal Discharge

Challenge a discharge if you believe they're not ready

Before Discharge: Demand These

Discharge Questions Checklist

Notes & Questions

Space for your observations and follow-ups

Questions I Still Need Answered

Concerns I've Observed

Post-Discharge To-Do List

Remember

You are your parent's advocate. If something doesn't feel right, speak up. Ask for the charge nurse, patient advocate, or a different doctor if needed. Your instincts matter.